Your first name, Selitje, creates an independent, forthright, practical nature. You use originality and ingenuity to accomplish your projects and you do enjoy a challenge. If someone owes you money, you appreciate being paid back promptly and in full, and yet you can be very generous when you see the need. It is difficult for you to bend your will to others. You could be demanding and shrewd in money matters. To be successful, to have a good standard of living, and to be a good provider are important to you, and are a reflection of your ambitious, aggressive qualities. You are quite strong-willed, and do not readily change your opinions. Others can feel somewhat intimidated by your authoritative, confident manner at times. At times, you create misunderstandings with others as it is not easy for you to be diplomatic. Your appreciation of art and music is focused around how to make these activities into viable financial opportunities.