Your first name of Selphia gives you an independent, serious, reticent, and studious nature. You do not express yourself spontaneously when conversing with others; hence other people may often regard you as being aloof, and even unfriendly. The people who mean the most to you are those who can offer you intellectual companionship. You can express your thoughts best in writing, and you express your appreciation of others through little acts of service rather than verbally. You are very conscientious and competent in all that you do. In fact, others find it challenging to understand you as you do not reveal your innermost thoughts unless you are completely comfortable in your friendships. At such times you can withdraw into a mood, and may not even speak to others. You express your thoughts and feelings best through writing rather than verbally. For that reason, despite having good business abilities, you like to work alone or where you are making your own decisions. It has created separateness from others and loneliness in your life.