Your first name, Selvije, creates an independent, determined, and persevering nature. You feel awkward and embarrassed because you recognize your verbal restrictions in not being able to be as diplomatic, sympathetic, and solicitous, as others would like. As it is challenging for you to express emotional sentiments, you avoid such situations if you can. Your independence and self-reliance do not make it easy for you to accept advice or the opinions of others. You do not tend to enjoy long-range planning, but you are very willing to work hard today to create the tomorrows. You do not depend upon others for encouragement or sympathy to give you the will to carry out your undertakings. Being much focused on your pursuits, at times you overlook the personal considerations and attentions that create understanding and companionship with others. Outdoor activities such as exploring, camping, hiking, or climbing are pursuits you enjoy as they provide an outlet for your active, vital nature. You enjoy outdoors activities with a few close friends. You are loyal in friendships and express candidly.