Your first name of Shandra makes you easy-going and refined, but detracts from your physical vitality. You try to avoid stressful experiences, as you have great difficulty in handling tension. Procrastination is a weakness. If you have guidelines and instructions to follow, you can be bold and pragmatic in handling difficult situations. You can give good advice although it is unlikely that you would follow it yourself. You find pleasure in music, art, and drama and enjoy catering to the comfort of others. You enjoy sociability and the good things of life, but must be aware of easy-going, good-time types of people who could draw you into experiences offering little in the way of progress. You know what to say to bring the best response. It is difficult for you to be individual and make your own decisions, for you lack self-confidence. All these things are your attempt to surround yourself with peace and harmony, to enjoy the security of happy, relaxed association.