Your first name of Shondie makes you easy-going and refined, but detracts from your physical vitality. You find pleasure in music, art, and drama and enjoy catering to the comfort of others. As a result, you must guard against being too easily led, perhaps to divulge confidences, and to talk indiscriminately about others. If a project requires too much hard work, effort, or discomfort, you will seek alternatives to avoid the difficulties. Encouragement and assurance from others strengthens your resolve that you are making the best decisions. You enjoy the comforts and amenities of life and refined surroundings that create a sense of peace and harmony. You desire all the finer things in life--lovely clothes, home, furniture, and environment. You are inclined to let things slide until you are forced to take action, especially in dealing with those monotonous jobs that require system and concentration like housework or budget planning. You would be most successful in situations where you can use your skills in diplomacy in handling people, but where you are not under pressure or required to carry responsibility and make decisions. All these things are your attempt to surround yourself with peace and harmony, to enjoy the security of happy, relaxed association.