Your first name of Sonje has given you a friendly, likeable nature, and you could excel in artistic, dramatic, and musical expression. If given the training, you could excel in the self-expressive arts particularly in playing an instrument, in elocution, or in dancing. You have many disappointments because of extending a helping hand to others in need, and then not receiving any acknowledgement or reciprocation for your generosity. Unfortunately, these are times in your life when others are apt to take advantage of you because you find it difficult to say “no” especially if people have appealed to your sympathies. This sensitivity contributes to your variable nature. You want very much for everyone to be happy and friendly. As you often experience difficulty making decisions, you appreciate the encouragement of others to give you the support and confidence necessary to follow through on your decisions. If those around you are quarrelling, you would want to try to be the mediator to create understanding between them. You have high goals and ideals, but must incorporate more practicality, system, and concentration in order to materialize them. In worst cases, nervous breakdowns and loss of memory could occur.
