Your first name of Sonlam has made you a sociable person who appreciates the beauties of nature and the refinements of life, and is moved by music and the arts. Crudeness and vulgarity are very repulsive to you and you are very particular about little things. As you are extremely impressionable and easily hurt and offended, you are hesitant when it comes to revealing your deeper thoughts and feelings. You crave affection and understanding, yet because you can be so easily and deeply hurt, you have learned to keep your true nature hidden; therefore people do not really know you. People may consider you haughty and aloof because of your sensitivity and reserved ways. Many times, you feel misunderstood because not even your closest friends really know you. Your deep affection for and devotion to others expresses naturally in an atmosphere of understanding. You always wonder if you are doing the right thing, desiring to express yourself but afraid to. Under stressful conditions, you may experience tension in the solar plexus area. Thus, you live much within your own thoughts, often finding your escape in reading, which you love to do.