Your first name of Spoafi has made you happiest when you are expressing in some creative, artistic way, and not conforming to strict routine. You long for love and affection and for your sensitive feelings to be understood. You appreciate music, art, and drama and if given training, could excel in those fields. When you feel misunderstood, you become very reserved and quiet, and do not want to be with people. You are happiest when you are expressing in some artistic way, free from monotony and detail. On the other hand, among friends with whom you feel at ease, you are expressive, witty, and quite charming. Occasionally, when you are unhappy or disappointed by something, you can be moody and temperamental, and feel misunderstood and unappreciated. People tend to be guarded in handling your over-sensitive qualities. You find the beauties of nature, fine music, art, and literature--all the deeper things of life--inspiring. The reserved, sensitive side of your nature brings aloneness and friction into your life, although you crave affection and understanding.