Your first name of Tabendeh creates an intense desire for association with people and new experiences, many of which have been rather bitter. However, this name does not allow you to complete your undertakings, as farther fields always look greener. Farther fields look greener to you and you find it hard to finish what you have started. You make the effort to communicate with others because you place importance on having people like you. One side desires placidity, relaxation, and social activities, while the other side longs for change and travel, and opportunities that allow you to be creative and independent from all routine and interference. You desire change and travel and would enjoy opportunities that allowed you to be creative and to act independently, rather than to conform to system and routine. There is much confusion under this name, and your moods will fluctuate from one extreme to the other. Talking comes easily to you, but you must guard against your inclination to talk too much, especially if you are overstressed. While you do have a quick, clever mind, the tensions and limitations this name places upon your happiness and success in life far outweigh the benefits. This name spoils patience and depth of thought, and weakens your stand in matters of principle.