Your name of Tamela has given you depth of mind and a studious, philosophical nature. You are not the argumentative type, but you can admonish a person by saying nothing, your silent disapproval being felt by others. You tend to be secretive and noncommittal about private matters, yet at times you will talk effusively in order to hide your self-consciousness or to lead others away from personal subjects. You are deeply moved by the beauties of life, especially nature. It is far easier for you to express your deeper thoughts and feelings through writing than verbally. You are a solitary person, reserved and sensitive. Even in being reprimanded, you tend to take a haughty attitude and refuse to be advised. You love books, especially mysteries and romance. You are inspired by encouragement from others, yet suspicious of their intent. You crave affection but seldom find anyone who understands your nature.