Your first name of Tecmessa gives you a friendly, congenial personality and causes you to desire activities involving people. It is hard for you to face an issue directly and say “yes” or “no” and mean it, though you have a quickness of mind that enables you to respond with artful diplomacy to evade unpleasant situations. Others do not always realize how sensitive and aware you are of their thoughts and feelings toward you. It is very important to you to have peaceful, settled conditions in your life. Sometimes friction in association results because your penchant for exactness and detail can cause you to be too fussy over inconsequential matters in the home or at work. You are not comfortable having to make major decisions. Even with lesser ones, you prefer to talk them over with a respected friend or associate first. You find it difficult to take a definite stand, partly because you lack confidence, and also because you dislike any issues which create dissension between people. You desire refinement, understanding, and appreciation, yet sometimes your outward attitude does not reveal your innermost feelings, and thus you have never felt truly understood. While you do have many fine qualities, the tensions created by this name do not allow you to enjoy a full and complete life.
