Your first name of Tham has developed qualities of positivity, independence, and self-confidence. Although you are extremely devoted to your family and friends, it is not in your nature to express emotional sentiments. Your verbal expression does not reflect your inner thoughts and feelings, and you often wonder why people react to what you say. You have a forthright, matter-of-fact manner that others turn to in times of need. You candidly say what you think and this quality, combined with your diligence to look after the rights of people, can cause others to think of you as being interfering and bossy, or lacking in tact and understanding. Being self-assured and self-reliant, you are naturally inclined toward operating your own business or accepting opportunities where your love of freedom is not curtailed. Your love is shown in what you do for others, in your sense of responsibility and dependability, in the sacrificing of your time to be of assistance. It makes you feel awkward and embarrassed when you are drawn into situations requiring sympathy and understanding, or where lavish affection and compliments are expected. You have a tendency to worry far too much over obligations and responsibilities. It is a name that makes you far too practical and serious-minded, and makes it difficult for you to act with spontaneity.
