Your first name of Tharbeline gives you a friendly, congenial personality and causes you to desire activities involving people. Peaceful and settled conditions appeal to you and you are naturally desirous of having the security of a home, where your life could follow a definite pattern, and where you would not have to make major decisions. You find it difficult to take a definite stand, partly because you lack confidence, and also because you dislike any issues which create dissension between people. Although you may dream of better things, you find it hard to maintain the drive to go after them. You have a strong emotional nature that, if not kept under control, could be detrimental to your health or result in problems in close personal relationships. It is very important to you to have peaceful, settled conditions in your life. This uncertainty and indecision undermines your initiative, positivity, and vitality. Procrastination is a weakness of your nature, causing an inability always to complete your plans or to concentrate for long. You desire refinement, understanding, and appreciation, yet sometimes your outward attitude does not reveal your innermost feelings, and thus you have never felt truly understood. Growths could also be a possibility.
