Your first name of Themara has made you happiest when you are expressing in some creative, artistic way, and not conforming to strict routine. The mysteries of life, the phenomena of nature, and religious and occult concepts appeal to your desire to understand the deeper aspects of life. Others impose upon your generosity at times, and you do not always reap the rewards for all that you do. You are loyal to your friends and go out of your way to help others. People tend to be guarded in handling your over-sensitive qualities. When you feel misunderstood, you become very reserved and quiet, and do not want to be with people. When you feel you are understood, you then must guard against jealousy and possessiveness. In a large group of comparative strangers, you are quiet and rather shy, unable to express yourself, not really wanting to become involved in conversation. You find the beauties of nature, fine music, art, and literature--all the deeper things of life--inspiring. The reserved, sensitive side of your nature brings aloneness and friction into your life, although you crave affection and understanding.