Your first name of Theophila has given you a desire for self-expression and for positions that allow contact with people, free from the restrictions and monotony into which you are often drawn. While you can be exacting and thorough in whatever you decide to undertake, and desire to keep a well-ordered life with everything in its place, it is not easy for you to maintain the system and order you would like. However, despite the hurt, you do not tend to brood for long, as you want to be happy and optimistic. You thrive on encouragement and appreciation from others, and kindness goes a long way in bringing out your naturally cheerful disposition. You enjoy surprises to a degree, yet it is difficult for you to adjust quickly. You are an emotional person. If told that you must do something, you tend to resist, but when your sense of co-operation is appealed to, then your desire to please brings out your best. This disparity creates frustration within you as you cannot consistently maintain the system and order you desire. There is conflict between your desires and your expression which does not allow scope for your capabilities. This lack of fulfilment of your deeper qualities tends to create repression and frustration.
