Your first name of Toinell gives you the desire to understand and to help others but, at the same time you can become too involved in their problems and, as a result, worry too much. You have a love of home and family and could be a good mother because of your gentle, loving ways. You desire many things, but discipline and self-restraint are challenges for you. There is a serious side to your nature in that you care about people and have a sense of responsibility to help them. Since you do not want to offend, you are prone to back away from confrontations and arguments for the sake of maintaining the peace. You shrink from sordidness and poverty because you feel very deeply for anyone in unfortunate circumstances. Whenever possible, you avoid argument and turmoil because you prefer not to face an issue if it means hurting anyone's feelings. You make friends easily. More self-confidence would enhance your favourable qualities as well as give you the positivity and snap judgment needed to enrich your life by expanding your horizons in so many ways. You are not enjoying the fullness life has to offer you because of certain limitations.