Your first name of Xiahou has developed qualities of positivity, independence, and self-confidence. Your verbal expression does not reflect your inner thoughts and feelings, and you often wonder why people react to what you say. Although you are extremely devoted to your family and friends, it is not in your nature to express emotional sentiments. You are practical and steadfast but at times too limited in your personal opinions and ideas. Your mind is quick to comprehend and you can be depended upon to do any job well. Your love is shown in what you do for others, in your sense of responsibility and dependability, in the sacrificing of your time to be of assistance. Self-consciousness and lack of expression limit your ability to give in this way. You take your responsibilities seriously and have a deep appreciation for family and the home environment. The influence of this name does not promote the friendship that you desire or the relaxation and naturalness you should enjoy with people. It is a name that makes you far too practical and serious-minded, and makes it difficult for you to act with spontaneity.