Your first name of Xian has made you a friendly, approachable, and generous person. Having your independence curtailed can make you very obstinate and uncooperative. You enjoy freedom from monotony and are stimulated by unexpected opportunities for meeting people, entertaining, or pursuing activities of a carefree nature. As you are naturally talkative, you find it easy to meet and make friends with many people. You respond quickly to affection and appreciation and, as long as you are free from monotony, you are generally good-natured and happy-go-lucky. Budgeting finances can be a problem, because your spending is often impulsive rather than practical. Generally you are good-natured, though at times you can be blunt and sarcastic. You would not hesitate, however, to help a friend in need, despite your personal financial circumstances at the time. You rarely plan things ahead of time, or follow a routine. Emotion and feeling, the desire to be carefree, friendly, and happy, are the driving forces in your being, rather than shrewdness, ambition, and material success.