The name of Xianling creates a dual nature in that you can be very generous and understanding, but you can also be so candid in your expression that you create misunderstanding. When you are happy and giving, you have a charming personality, you make friends easily, and would go to great lengths to help someone in need. You like to add something new, something different, to your creativity, drawing upon your inventive traits. You have your own strong opinions and it is not easy for you to be influenced by others to change your mind once you have reached a decision. Because of your definite ideas and opinions, you work best on your own, free from the advice or interference of others. You struggle with the requirement to soften your expression with tact and diplomacy and to consider the feelings of others. You could develop a dependence on medication, for example, to relieve the tension. Independence and freedom of action mean a great deal to you; therefore, you enjoy positions where you are giving instructions rather than taking them. This quality can spoil friendships and create losses in the affections. You have very intense feelings and find it difficult to maintain stability and happiness.
