Your first name of Xianya makes you easy-going and refined, but detracts from your physical vitality. You can give good advice although it is unlikely that you would follow it yourself. You are inclined to let things slide until you are forced to take action, especially in dealing with those monotonous jobs that require system and concentration like housework or budget planning. As a result, you must guard against being too easily led, perhaps to divulge confidences, and to talk indiscriminately about others. You tend to be a follower, passive in your approach to life, blending with others rather than being actively creative, independent, and outspoken. Encouragement and assurance from others strengthens your resolve that you are making the best decisions. You naturally attract people with problems who seek your understanding and advice. People are inclined to take advantage of your sympathetic, tractable nature. It is difficult for you to be individual and make your own decisions, for you lack self-confidence. You would be most successful in situations where you can use your skills in diplomacy in handling people, but where you are not under pressure or required to carry responsibility and make decisions.
