The name of Xiaojie has given you the desire for creative, artistic or musical expression in an original way. Although you are congenial in the early stages of friendships, it is not easy for you to maintain relaxed, harmonious relationships because, through increasing familiarity, you are inclined to lack patience, to be intolerant, and to speak your mind in a frank, argumentative, and occasionally hurtful manner. Because you like to get your own way, and your name makes it difficult for you to see things from other points of view, others accuse you of obstinacy or self-centredness. You tend to scatter your efforts and to avoid those activities that require concentration, system and order, and attention to detail. New ideas hold your interest, but you become restless when boredom or monotony sets in. Although you meet new people easily, it is not easy for you to maintain a relaxed, harmonious relationship. These tendencies could spoil long-term understanding and compatibility. With increased familiarity you are inclined to speak your mind in a forthright, sometimes argumentative manner which creates annoyance and often hard feelings. In an argument, you usually emerge victor, but at a cost. At times when your expressive urges seem to be bottled up, you experience stress and react to others critically instead of handling situations in a relaxed, cheerful manner.
