Your first name of Xiaolian has made you systematic and practical in all you do. Being mechanically inclined, you are often aware of sounds and seem to know when something is not working properly by the sound it is making. Since you would have a place for everything and have everything in its place, you would not appreciate others creating changes unless they discussed them with you first. Budgeting comes easily for you. As you are meticulous in financial dealings and particular about getting all the facts in financial and other matters, seldom, if ever, do you make impulsive decisions. You are clever in mathematics and have great patience with work of a detailed nature, such as bookkeeping or accounting. You have a good memory for details. Therefore, you prefer to have control of material and financial values yourself and to avoid speculation. Those close to you do not appreciate that you may forget the thoughtful expressions of affection toward them. Your very practical nature does not allow you the appreciation you might have for life's more aesthetic values as it keeps your mind mostly concerned with facts and figures.