Your first name of Xiaolin has made you happiest when you are expressing in some creative, artistic way, and not conforming to strict routine. By taking a walk in nature, you can often settle turmoil within yourself. Occasionally, when you are unhappy or disappointed by something, you can be moody and temperamental, and feel misunderstood and unappreciated. Others impose upon your generosity at times, and you do not always reap the rewards for all that you do. Your close friends are few. When you feel you are understood, you then must guard against jealousy and possessiveness. You seldom like your time to be organized rigidly by others, but like to do things in your own way, at your own time. Your friends seldom know what to expect from you because of this dual character—friendly and charming one moment or lost in introspection the next. Over-indulgence could cause a weak back, skin conditions or arthritis later in life. The reserved, sensitive side of your nature brings aloneness and friction into your life, although you crave affection and understanding.