Your first name of Xiaoyu has given you energy, drive, and ambition, but also an almost excessively strong-willed and independent nature. As it is difficult for you to express the little attentions and niceties that appeal to more sensitive natures, you attract misunderstandings with those who do not appreciate your forthright manner. This name gives the urge to leave home early in life. Over-intensity is your challenge; you put a great deal of effort into your activities, but often fail to take time to relax, to view your plans objectively, and perhaps, to consider the opinions of others. You often feel you could have achieved even better results. Lavish displays of emotion tend to embarrass you, making you feel self-conscious and inadequate. You rebel at restrictions and are resourceful in unexpected circumstances. You attend to tedious responsibilities only when you have no other alternative. You become intensely involved with everything you plan to do, but the stress arising from frustrating obstacles or misunderstandings with others could prompt you to be intolerant and sarcastic in your expression, with breakdowns in congenial relations with family and friends a possible end result. Intensity affects the senses of your head as well, whereby you could suffer with migraine headaches, sinus problems, or throat and swallowing difficulties.
