Your first name of Xilan has developed qualities of positivity, independence, and self-confidence. You have a forthright, matter-of-fact manner that others turn to in times of need. You candidly say what you think and this quality, combined with your diligence to look after the rights of people, can cause others to think of you as being interfering and bossy, or lacking in tact and understanding. It makes you feel awkward and embarrassed when you are drawn into situations requiring sympathy and understanding, or where lavish affection and compliments are expected. Your love is shown in what you do for others, in your sense of responsibility and dependability, in the sacrificing of your time to be of assistance. You appreciate time on your own. You do not change your mind readily. Managing the home, caring for the family, and expressing your creativity in such pursuits as cooking, dressmaking, or interior design is of interest to you. The influence of this name does not promote the friendship that you desire or the relaxation and naturalness you should enjoy with people. You have a tendency to worry far too much over obligations and responsibilities.
