Your first name of Xiroma gives you a poised, gracious, and reserved nature. You are inclined to be secretive, sometimes suspicious of others, and you seldom reveal your innermost thoughts until you are comfortable and trusting of someone. Harmony and relaxation for you could be a quiet walk along the seashore, or in the woods or anywhere that you can observe the beauties of the outdoors. You appear aloof and, as a result, others do not realize how important affection and understanding are to you. You prefer positions where your independence and love of freedom are not curtailed, where there is not the constant demands of people. If you sense that someone is being inquisitive about you and your life, you are adept at steering the conversation to other topics, or not answering questions directly. Your reticence has caused you to suffer aloneness and misunderstandings. Rather than arguing, you use silence as your way of handling difficult situations. Impromptu expression does not come easily unless you know your subject very well. You love to read and can develop great powers of concentration.