Although you are congenial in the early stages of friendships, it is not easy for you to maintain relaxed, harmonious relationships because, through increasing familiarity, you are inclined to lack patience, to be intolerant, and to speak your mind in a frank, argumentative, and occasionally hurtful manner. Although you meet new people easily, it is not easy for you to maintain a relaxed, harmonious relationship. As your independence and freedom are very important, you will seldom tolerate limitations. You like to act spontaneously, but impulsive decisions and poor judgment can occasionally lead you into unsettling circumstances which spoil the success of your undertakings. You enjoy new ideas and new projects, but have difficulty in following through if once you find the novelty of an activity has worn off. Because you like to get your own way, and your name makes it difficult for you to see things from other points of view, others accuse you of obstinacy or self-centredness. Your name Xiu-Ping has made you strong willed and self-sufficient. With increased familiarity you are inclined to speak your mind in a forthright, sometimes argumentative manner which creates annoyance and often hard feelings. This name does not offer the softness of expression for long-lasting compatibility in close associations. Health weaknesses centre in the head with the use of this name: headcolds, sinus problems, headaches, or hay fever.
