Your first name of Zarian gives you the desire to understand and to help others but, at the same time you can become too involved in their problems and, as a result, worry too much. You desire many things, but discipline and self-restraint are challenges for you. Even though you have many admirable qualities, you need initiative, self-confidence,and ambition. Since you do not want to offend, you are prone to back away from confrontations and arguments for the sake of maintaining the peace. You will sacrifice your own opportunities to help others. When you are needed and appreciated by others, you sense a security which builds your confidence. People like you at first meeting. However, you must guard against worry over decisions both for yourself and others. If given the opportunity, you could develop musical and artistic abilities. You are not enjoying the fullness life has to offer you because of certain limitations.