Your first name of Aarif has given you an expressive, diplomatic, and refined nature. You would prefer to ignore the harsh realities of life. You could be particularly successful at planning and managing social events or business meetings, although you are not a high-pressure person who could initiate and promote major projects; rather, you look for opportunities to make improvements in operations already underway. Intuitive to the thoughts and intentions of others, you can give good advice to resolve potential misunderstanding and conflict. Although you do have some fine qualities, you are not experiencing the fullness life has to offer through growth of mind and the emotional and financial stability that would bring you happiness. An understanding nature allows you to perceive the challenges facing people. Good business judgment and friends in higher positions give you the opportunity to meet and mix with people on a more refined, successful level. In your work, you would always feel more secure in an intermediary position where upper management would make the major, or hard, decisions and you would carry them out using your diplomatic skills and suave manner in handling people. You have good business judgment but lack the confidence to carry out your own ideas unless assisted by an associate. Through your diplomatic ways you are able to call on the assistance of others to avoid such matters.