Your first name of Ablendan has created a deep, sensitive, refined nature with an intelligent mind and a keen appreciation of material values. In school, you could have been good at mathematics, accounting, science, computer programming, or any subject that required your full interest and attention. Your sensitivity and reserve prevent people from coming close in friendship. In dealing with others, you have high expectations and, possibly, a sense of entitlement in your attitude. Although you appear calm and in control at all times, constant pressures and difficult decisions can cause you inner turmoil. There is always an aloofness and reserve that acts as a barrier and prevents any close ties. If you work in a managerial or executive position, you would be a quiet boss, but you would expect a high standard of results. However, even though you may accomplish many of your goals, you would sense that there is a greater purpose to life beyond material pursuits. When responsibilities become too much, to regain your composure, you seek an outlet in the outdoors or you retreat into your own private space. You live much within your own thoughts, and seek relaxation away from people, out in nature, where you can ease the tensions of your life.
