Your first name of Aelmer gives you a highly sensitive, idealistic, and intuitive nature. You appreciate music, drama, and art. Fashionable clothes and refined surroundings would add to your poise and self-assurance. Under stressful and intense situations, it is a challenge to maintain an even temperament as you are extreme in your feelings: optimistic and happy one moment, despondent and self-pitying the next. If you drive yourself, you will experience nervous problems and challenges in maintaining your equilibrium. You do not like to stand alone. Yours is a quick mind and you can usually think of something to say when there is a need to offset or deflect an unpleasant situation, sometimes finding it necessary to stretch the truth a little in the process. There are times in your life when others are apt to take advantage because you find it difficult to say "no" especially if your sympathies are appealed to. You could experience physical problems in the fluid functions that would appear as kidney, bladder, or prostate disorders, or as poor circulation in the bloodstream or lymphatic system. In worst cases, nervous breakdowns and loss of memory could occur.