Your first name of Afendy gives you self-assurance, independence, and confidence. Because you value friendships you do not hesitate to come to the aid of someone in need; however, your assistance is usually accompanied with words of advice. Having the confidence and will power to follow through on your objectives does not give you a lot of understanding for those who are lacking in initiative. You are usually either telling or showing someone how to do something properly. You love to challenge the concepts of others, developing your own ideas and pioneering new lines of thought. A need for independence would have you wanting to branch out on your own at an early age to become master of your own destiny. Although your manner might conflict with others who are also strong-willed, you are seen as a leader and respected for your integrity and steadfast individuality. Those who know you best appreciate your loyalty and honesty. You have to be your own boss as it is most difficult for you to submit to direction from others. Although you are good-natured and never intend offence, still your blunt, direct, and candid manner of expression strains friendships; your honesty and sincerity earn respect from others.