Your first name of Aldhelm gives you self-assurance, independence, and confidence. Your love of challenging the concepts of others invariably leads you to create your own ideas and to pioneer new lines of thought. You love to challenge the concepts of others, developing your own ideas and pioneering new lines of thought. As you are not demonstrative of your feelings, others know they can lean on you for support and protection. Although your manner might conflict with others who are also strong-willed, you are seen as a leader and respected for your integrity and steadfast individuality. Because you value friendships you do not hesitate to come to the aid of someone in need; however, your assistance is usually accompanied with words of advice. You must be independent and you do not brook interference in any way. You work best as your own boss as you are self-motivated and decisive, and resentful of someone telling you what to do. Although you are good-natured and never intend offence, still your blunt, direct, and candid manner of expression strains friendships; your honesty and sincerity earn respect from others. You have to be your own boss as it is most difficult for you to submit to direction from others.
