Your first name of Anselmi gives you self-assurance, independence, and confidence. Although you are good natured and never intend offence, nevertheless your strong mindedness and candid manner of expression could put a strain on close relationships. You love to challenge the concepts of others, developing your own ideas and pioneering new lines of thought. Your love of challenging the concepts of others invariably leads you to create your own ideas and to pioneer new lines of thought. Because you value friendships you do not hesitate to come to the aid of someone in need; however, your assistance is usually accompanied with words of advice. Even though you do not tolerate interference in your affairs, you are not shy about pointing out to others what they should do differently. A need for independence would have you wanting to branch out on your own at an early age to become master of your own destiny. Although your manner might conflict with others who are also strong-willed, you are seen as a leader and respected for your integrity and steadfast individuality. You have to be your own boss as it is most difficult for you to submit to direction from others. Also, there could be a tendency for your peace of mind to be disturbed because of worry.