Your first name of Apete gives you the ability to understand people and to merge conflicting viewpoints to create harmony in association. You dislike facing issues or witnessing hurt feelings. You could do well working with the public giving advice, where you can use your skills in diplomacy in handling people, but where you are not under pressure or required to carry responsibility and make decisions. You find it difficult to make snap decisions and to occupy a leadership position as you lack self-confidence. You dislike heavy manual work; as well, you are inclined to put plans off until forced to take action. In your work, you would gravitate to positions in sales, teaching, or some field where you deal with people but are not required to initiate action. This name makes it difficult for you to face issues. You tend to be a follower, passive in your approach to life, merging rather than being actively creative, independent, and outspoken. You find it difficult to be systematic in business and you dislike budgeting. Without the encouragement of others, you lack the energy, confidence, or initiative required to bring an idea to fruition.