Your first name of Arbain gives you a highly sensitive, idealistic, and intuitive nature. This sensitivity contributes to your variable nature, and can lead to uncontrolled, disturbing thoughts. People come to you seeking solutions to their problems because of your ability to sense their feelings and to give good advice. You could be expressive and creative in the arts, music, or drama. Plenty of rest and relaxation is needed in order to handle responsibilities. Under stressful and intense situations, it is a challenge to maintain an even temperament as you are extreme in your feelings: optimistic and happy one moment, despondent and self-pitying the next. If those around you are quarrelling, you try to create understanding between them. If you drive yourself, you will experience nervous problems and challenges in maintaining your equilibrium. In worst cases, nervous breakdowns and loss of memory could occur. Others are inclined to take advantage of your generosity and friendliness and then, when there is a lack of reciprocation, you can feel despondent and disillusioned.