The name of Bathembu makes you very idealistic, sensitive, and inspirational. If given the training, you could specialize in some creative outlet in the arts such as playing a musical instrument or in dramatic expression. Your feelings are so strong that you are inclined to build your life around certain individuals and become wrapped up in personal love rather than seeking into the deeper truths of life; thus you could suffer losses in your affections and shattered ideals. You respond readily to appeals for assistance and can end up being unrealistic and over-generous, neglecting your own needs and those of your dependents. You crave a home and family but tend to be over-protective of loved ones because of your fear of loss. When you care for someone, you can become suspicious, jealous, and possessive. There are extreme highs in your nature when you are inspired, optimistic, kind, understanding, generous, and charming. In reality, the emotional urges of this name are difficult to control. Otherwise you suffer losses and shattered ideals. When you are inspired and feel happy, life seems so wonderful; but you can be just as depressed and unhappy as well, feeling as if everyone is against you.
