Your name of Bee-Jay has made you a kind, thoughtful, and sociable person. Unfortunately, people are apt to take advantage of you because you are too easygoing and hate to face issues. If those around you were quarrelling, you would want to try to be the mediator to create understanding between them. Controlling your desires is challenging because of your happy-go-lucky, carefree nature, and difficulty in practising restraint and discipline. You shine as a host as you are approachable and instinctively know how to make everyone feel relaxed. However, you have to watch that others do not take advantage of your generosity, for you are apt to be influenced by hard-luck stories and give when it might be more prudent not to. Since you are not practical, and enjoy spending money and being generous, you must be wary of those who would appeal to your feelings and encourage you to spend beyond your means. Not inclined to be athletic, you prefer social activities instead. You may not necessarily develop all of these problems, but with this name these are the areas where weaknesses could occur when poor eating and living habits exist. As you grow older, arthritis could also be present.