Your first name of Bemy-John gives you the ability to understand people and to merge conflicting viewpoints to create harmony in association. If you have guidelines and instructions to follow, you can be bold and pragmatic in handling difficult situations. Encouragement and assurance strengthen your resolve that you are making the best decisions. You make friends easily but must guard against becoming involved in the affairs of others or being too easily led. Intuitive and impressionable, you are sensitive to the thoughts and feelings of others, and responsive to affection and attention. Procrastination is a weakness as you are inclined to let things slide until you are forced to take action, especially in dealing with those monotonous jobs that require system and concentration. You could do well working with the public giving advice, where you can use your skills in diplomacy in handling people, but where you are not under pressure or required to carry responsibility and make decisions. You find it difficult to make snap decisions and to occupy a leadership position as you lack self-confidence. Without the encouragement of others, you lack the energy, confidence, or initiative required to bring an idea to fruition. Also, you prefer to avoid strenuous physical activities, especially when there is the possibility of physical discomfort or distress.
