Your name of Bendor gives you a friendly, congenial personality and causes you to desire activities involving people. It is hard for you to face an issue directly and say "yes" or "no" and mean it, though you have a quickness of mind that enables you to respond with artful diplomacy to evade unpleasant situations. You require new ideas or concepts to be presented in complete detail before you can understand them properly and accept them. It is very important to you to have peaceful, settled conditions in your life. Not liking to stand alone, you seek the assurance from others to give you the confidence to do your best. You gravitate to positions where there is stability, security and opportunities to work with others to make steady progress. Your name restricts inspirational qualities and the ability to visualize new ideas and theories. Others do not always realize how sensitive and aware you are of their thoughts and feelings toward you. Growths could also be a possibility in the digestive tract or prostate gland. For the same reason, many times you procrastinate over making decisions.