Your first name of Benge creates a serious, thoughtful nature, shrewd, efficient, and business-minded. Having everything under control is important to you to demonstrate your capable, serious nature. Your standards of quality and efficiency are high. A tendency to be candid, combined with your diligence to look after the rights of people, can cause others to think of you as being interfering and bossy, or lacking in tact and understanding. Being relaxed and spontaneous in social or formal situations is sometimes challenging, as you often value time on your own more highly. You take your responsibilities seriously and have a deep appreciation for family, the home environment, and the community. Your accomplishments give you a great deal of satisfaction, and involvement in social activities can sometimes make you feel that you are wasting time. It is sometimes challenging for you to listen to and understand the viewpoints of others because your opinions are strong, carefully thought out, and sensible. A tendency to worry far too much over obligations and responsibilities could lead to a disturbed mental state. In your personal relations with others, you are inclined to be rather serious, and not to see the humour others see, or to respond spontaneously.
