Your name of Benjarman gives you a clever, analytical mind, and causes you to be studious and serious, drawn to the deeper secrets of life. There could be misunderstandings in relationships because you feel deeply about those you love but are embarrassed to openly show your affections. It takes a confident person to read from your quiet thoughtful gestures that he or she is held in high regard. The friends you choose to associate with have similar interests of a theoretical and contemplative nature. You could earn the respect of others with your ability to remain calm and in control while facing challenging situations, even if internally you are experiencing turbulence. Others may misjudge your reserve as lack of interest or affection and, as a result, feel excluded and insecure. You sense there is much that cannot be understood by the five senses. Although you are not overly expressive verbally, you could excel at literary and artistic pursuits. As it is not easy for you to share your deeper thoughts and ideals with others, you are inclined to choose the association of those few friends with whom you feel the most at ease and with whom you can enjoy companionship in a contemplative mood without feeling pressure for verbal communication. While your name gives you a clever, deep mind, you feel and sense much that you do not fully understand.
