Your name of Benjiamen gives you a friendly, congenial personality and causes you to desire activities involving people. The support of others means a great deal, for you really do not like to stand alone. There is a preference for practical pastimes working with your hands at crafts and hobbies. Being obliging and helpful to others in times of need may be at the neglect of your own duties. You relish being made a fuss of, yet you find it difficult to express your appreciation and to reciprocate with affection and words of endearment. You are neither overly systematic nor thorough, and do not enjoy monotonous tasks or detailed bookwork. As a result of your difficulty in coming to decisions, you often put off taking action until forced to do so. Your name does not allow you to express your thoughts as tactfully as you would like. Also you could be affected through headaches, weak eyes, or sinus inflammation that is aggravated by stressful living conditions and eating the wrong foods. You want to be more expressive, diplomatic, and easy-going, but you feel the limitation in your communication with others and it creates frustration within you.
