Your first name of Bondhu has given you an idealistic nature with a desire to help others. Being somewhat self-centred, you learn through your own experiences, as you rarely take advice from others. Yet, you are sensitive and very easily hurt and offended. You long for praise and appreciation for your efforts, but others find it difficult to understand you. However, this name makes it awkward for you to express your deeper thoughts and feelings with finesse and diplomacy to the extent that your candid, sometimes blunt, manner of speaking creates misunderstandings with others. Your initiative often causes you to be the first to act when you see a need. You are imaginative and visionary, somewhat of a perfectionist, yet the results of your efforts often fall short of your high expectations. The inadequacy you feel in communicating your thoughts and feelings often creates a stubbornness and frustration and then, when provoked, your bottled-up emotions could explode through temper and physical aggression. The intensity you experience from misunderstandings and setbacks could cause problems in health relative to your high strung nervous system. Your feelings are strong and you tend to react intensely to situations.