Your first name of Bonke gives you the ability to understand people and to merge conflicting viewpoints to create harmony in association. You find it difficult to make snap decisions and to occupy a leadership position as you lack self-confidence. You make friends easily but must guard against becoming involved in the affairs of others or being too easily led. If a project requires too much hard work and effort, you seek alternatives to avoid the difficulties. You invariably seek partnerships, for this name causes you to lack confidence in your abilities to be shrewd and to make quick judgments. You could do well working with the public giving advice, where you can use your skills in diplomacy in handling people, but where you are not under pressure or required to carry responsibility and make decisions. Intuitive and impressionable, you are sensitive to the thoughts and feelings of others, and responsive to affection and attention. Keeping the peace and expressing kindness, consideration, and courtesy are important to you and often, to your detriment, you allow others to have their way and to take advantage of your willingness to please. Also, you prefer to avoid strenuous physical activities, especially when there is the possibility of physical discomfort or distress. Without the encouragement of others, you lack the energy, confidence, or initiative required to bring an idea to fruition.
