Your first name of Cotys gives you self-assurance, independence, and confidence. Although your manner might conflict with others who are also strong-willed, you are seen as a leader and respected for your integrity and steadfast individuality. Although you are good natured and never intend offence, nevertheless your strong mindedness and candid manner of expression could put a strain on close relationships. You are usually either telling or showing someone how to do something properly. Those who know you best appreciate your loyalty and honesty. As you are not demonstrative of your feelings, others know they can lean on you for support and protection. You work best as your own boss as you are self-motivated and decisive, and resentful of someone telling you what to do. Your strong characteristic of individuality qualifies you as a leader. You have to be your own boss as it is most difficult for you to submit to direction from others. Also, there could be a tendency for your peace of mind to be disturbed because of worry.