Your first name of Deshai gives you self-assurance, independence, and confidence. Your strong characteristic of individuality qualifies you as a leader. Those who know you best appreciate your loyalty and honesty. You must be independent and you do not brook interference in any way. You are usually either telling or showing someone how to do something properly. A need for independence would have you wanting to branch out on your own at an early age to become master of your own destiny. Even though you do not tolerate interference in your affairs, you are not shy about pointing out to others what they should do differently. Because you value friendships you do not hesitate to come to the aid of someone in need; however, your assistance is usually accompanied with words of advice. Although you are good-natured and never intend offence, still your blunt, direct, and candid manner of expression strains friendships; your honesty and sincerity earn respect from others. You have to be your own boss as it is most difficult for you to submit to direction from others.