Your first name of Ellary gives you self-assurance, independence, and confidence. You must be independent and you do not brook interference in any way. You are usually either telling or showing someone how to do something properly. A need for independence would have you wanting to branch out on your own at an early age to become master of your own destiny. Having the confidence and will power to follow through on your objectives does not give you a lot of understanding for those who are lacking in initiative. Those who know you best appreciate your loyalty and honesty. Your strong characteristic of individuality qualifies you as a leader. You work best as your own boss as you are self-motivated and decisive, and resentful of someone telling you what to do. You have to be your own boss as it is most difficult for you to submit to direction from others. Although you are good-natured and never intend offence, still your blunt, direct, and candid manner of expression strains friendships; your honesty and sincerity earn respect from others.