Your first name of Esmerlito has created a deep, sensitive, refined nature with an intelligent mind and a keen appreciation of material values. Thus, you can experience loneliness. In dealing with others, you have high expectations and, possibly, a sense of entitlement in your attitude. There is always an aloofness and reserve that acts as a barrier and prevents any close ties. You work best in an independent capacity, where you are able to think problems out carefully before you act. You have strong ideas on how you wish your affairs to be organized and you do not appreciate interference from others. You have good business judgment and would do well in a managerial position, as you have executive ability. Those close to you may feel unsettled and insecure because of mixed messages: you show an undercurrent of possessiveness yet you hesitate to express affection, appreciation, and tenderness. You live much within your own thoughts, and seek relaxation away from people, out in nature, where you can ease the tensions of your life. When responsibilities become too much, to regain your composure, you seek an outlet in the outdoors or you retreat into your own private space.
