Your first name of Hai-Yang gives you the ability to understand people and to merge conflicting viewpoints to create harmony in association. You dislike facing issues or witnessing hurt feelings. There is a preference to avoid positions that would require you to make decisions when there is risk and uncertainty or that would demand concentration and close attention to detail. Keeping the peace and expressing kindness, consideration, and courtesy are important to you and often, to your detriment, you allow others to have their way and to take advantage of your willingness to please. Unfortunately, you tend to make promises for the sake of politeness or because you cannot refuse, but these promises are not always fulfilled. In your work, you would gravitate to positions in sales, teaching, or some field where you deal with people but are not required to initiate action. You dislike issues and will do whatever it takes to avoid direct confrontations. You find it difficult to make snap decisions and to occupy a leadership position as you lack self-confidence. Without the encouragement of others, you lack the energy, confidence, or initiative required to bring an idea to fruition. Also, you prefer to avoid strenuous physical activities, especially when there is the possibility of physical discomfort or distress.
